Violence

I'm interested in people's behavior and the reasons why they behave in a certain way. I've noticed in this week a couple of articles that deal with the violence that focused on women. One article concerned a woman who had taken a photo of herself in every day over a certain period. She had done a video of those photos and watching that video man notices that the woman is battered. I think that there are several of this kind of videos. At least, I remember that I've seen a similar kind of video earlier. Of course, violence is an important issue to pay attention to and that woman who had done the video may give courage to other women who has gone through the same treatment to bring it up and share their experiences and feelings about it.

The other article that I saw handled a test that has executed by a fighting actor couple. The actor couple fought in a elevator. The woman was a victim and the man was an intimating party in that scene. The group who had organized this test wanted to solve how many of the third persons get involved in the situation. Through this test were noticed that majority of people that were in the elevator at same time as the actor couple did not to get involved in the situation. The sample in this included 53 persons and only one of them got involved in the situation (Cresci 2014). The purpose of this test was good, but what if the people did not want to get involved because they thought it would be wiser to not to get involved. That does not mean that they would not care. That shows that they care about their own safety and feel it to be wiser not to react in the elevator, but perharps later after they've left from the elevator they contacted to police or told someone about the situation. But if people did not care and did not tell anyone after they left, then this is a problem. Then we can ask form ourselves: Why are we so impassive? We should not. What if you get a victim of violence from someone in a public place and nobody reacts? There's something to think about. For every one. 

While there's discussion about the violence that focuses on women, the men get angry. They get angry because they feel that the men are going through violence as much as the women. I saw lately a new about a boy that was bullied in a school because he was too normal as a person. He was treated with a physical violence. Of course this kind of news are presented quite often but bullying is violence, that leaves scars in a harassed. This new was sad because the teasers said him that they would be happy if he is dead. How can someone say anything like that? What is wrong with those people? Can't they realize that harassed won't forget those experiences and they impact to his life in a long run? Maybe he would really kill himself. Do the teasers really want to that happen? The parents need to take a responsible of their children. That kind of behavior is not acceptable. Do you ever wonder what kind of persons would that kind of teasers grow if no one gets involved? 

This is a sad topic but I really hope that the people who are not treated well get the treatment that they deserve from someone and have the believe and zest of life to continue forward in spite of all the bad things that have happened in their life and, the most important, they should have lots of love.